My Life After 10,000 Rejections | Simon Wang | TEDxUTA

My Life After 10,000 Rejections | Simon Wang | TEDxUTA

by Simon Wang

Humanities, Social Sciences & Thought Personal Development VSPPopular psychologyVSPMAssertiveness, motivation, self-esteem and positive mental attitude
🎙 Simon Wang 👥 44.6M 📅 August 5, 2026 ⏱ 14 min 👁 12 📄 expert opinion 🧭 2026-08-05
Available in: English (current) Français

Keywords

rejectionresiliencemindsetpersonal growthcareer

Summary

Simon Wang shares his personal journey of facing over 10,000 rejections, from his father’s rejection in childhood to numerous job application rejections. He emphasizes that rejection does not define one’s identity but is an event that can be reframed as data and feedback. Through his experiences, he learned that rejection builds skills and resilience, and that confidence earned through rejection is more robust than untested confidence. He highlights the importance of persistence and compounding rejections, as each rejection can lead to new opportunities. He also stresses that avoiding rejection can lead to regret, and encourages the audience to actively seek rejections as a way to grow. His story includes landing internships and jobs at major companies like Apple, Salesforce, and Microsoft, and he concludes with a challenge to the audience to get rejected today.

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Critical Evaluation

The talk is a personal narrative rather than a scientific analysis, but it offers valuable insights into resilience and mindset. Simon Wang’s arguments are based on his own experiences, which are compelling but not generalizable. He provides a structured framework with five lessons, making the content easy to follow. However, the lack of external sources or empirical evidence weakens the scientific rigor. The talk is motivational and practical, but it may oversimplify the complexities of rejection in different contexts. The title accurately reflects the content, and the speaker’s authenticity adds to its credibility. The audience is likely to find the message inspiring, but it should be viewed as anecdotal rather than evidence-based. The talk does not address potential downsides of relentless pursuit, such as burnout or systemic barriers. Overall, it is a well-delivered personal story with practical advice, but it lacks scientific depth.

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Title / Content Match

The title accurately reflects the content: a personal story about overcoming rejections.

Quality & Reliability

5/10

Personal anecdotal evidence, no scientific references, but honest and structured narrative. Low verifiability, but authentic experience.

Key Moments

Markers derived by PSI from the transcript: the creator did not define chapters.

Cited Sources

  • TEDx Talks — General information about TEDx events.

Concurring Sources

Dissenting Sources

  • Rejection sensitivity — Contrasts with the speaker's view by highlighting that rejection can be harmful for some individuals.

Contribution & Novelties

The talk offers a personal perspective on rejection, framing it as a tool for growth rather than a setback. It provides practical advice on reframing rejection and building resilience. While not scientifically novel, it synthesizes common psychological concepts into an accessible narrative.

Pour aller plus loin :

  • Psychological resilience — Relevant to the concept of building resilience through adversity.
  • Growth mindset — Carol Dweck’s work on growth vs. fixed mindset is directly related to the idea of reframing rejection.
  • Exposure therapy — The idea of gradually facing fears, similar to the speaker’s suggestion to seek rejections.

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Radar Profile

The radar profile shows moderate scores across all dimensions, with a relatively higher score in quality of information due to the structured narrative, but lower in technical level and reliability due to lack of scientific backing.

Reliability 4/10